
Lesson
Why It Escalates
Summary
Cyberbullying rarely starts as an all-out attack—it escalates through small, identifiable moments called "pivot points." Explore why online conflict spirals so quickly and how students can use "upstander" strategies to interrupt it before it gets there.
Bellringer: What Would You Do?
- Present the group chat scenario on-slide
- Give students silent think-time, then collect reactions by show of hands or quick write
Instruction
- Walk through why anonymity and lost body language fuel online conflict
- Define "pivot point" and the bystander vs. accomplice vs. upstander framework
- Introduce the "4 D's" of being an upstander
Discussion: Silence and the Pivot Point
- Pose "Silence is a statement, too" and let students sit with it before discussing
- Ask when staying silent is understandable vs. when it's harmful
Activity: Digital Citizenship Workbook
- Students complete pages 5-6 of the Digital Citizenship Workbook
- Circulate to prompt students connecting workbook prompts to pivot points discussed earlier
Wrap-Up & Assessment
- Explain one reason conflict escalates online.
- Write 2-3 sentences about your strategy to be an upstander.
| Est. Time | Activity | Description |
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| 5 min | Bellringer: What Would You Do? |
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| 10 min | Instruction |
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| 8 min | Discussion: Silence and the Pivot Point |
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| 17 min | Activity: Digital Citizenship Workbook |
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| 5 min | Wrap-Up & Assessment |
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Lesson Prep

Digital Citizenship Workbook
Complete "Tips for Online Games" on pages 5-6.
Class Presentation
Includes a 17-slide deck with teacher notes. Present from Banzai, download a PDF, or copy it to Google Slides.
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- Teacher NotesSlide-by-slide guidance, printable as one handout
Unit 4: Online Conflict

From Drama to Harm
Cyberbullying rarely starts as an attack — it usually starts as a joke that goes too far. Explore the blurry line between teasing, conflict, and harassment, and learn why impact always outweighs intent online.

Why It Escalates
Cyberbullying rarely starts as an all-out attack—it escalates through small, identifiable moments called "pivot points." Explore why online conflict spirals so quickly and how students can use "upstander" strategies to interrupt it before it gets there.

Impersonation, Doxxing, and Leaking
A whispered secret in a crowded hallway is nothing like the same secret posted online. Explore how impersonation, catfishing, doxxing, and leaking weaponize personal information—and build a plan to protect your own.
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